Belief

What do you believe? What is your believe making you feel like? Why do you believe what it is you believe?

All of these questions spur a feeling deep inside of us. We know that feelings dictate emotions and emotions dictate our reality right?

Then if you are looking to change your life, change your reality, become something or someone you have only dreamed of your entire life, then why not begin to change some of your beliefs?

Do you believe ANYTHING is possible?

Do you believe YOU are magnificent?

Do you believe YOU can accomplish ANYTHING?

Do you believe that just by changing the way you think, perceive, and dream you can create a new reality a new life for yourself?

Everything I just said is true! It’s overwhelming to think that you are the creator of everything that happens in your life isn’t it? It’s also a little bit of a wakeup call! You might be a little offended. You may want to deny that you have not created the horrid one bedroom apartment that you live in, or the awful job situation. You may scoff at me when I tell you even the car problems you are having is all because of the way you are thinking, feeling, and believing right now.

BUT WAIT!!

Don’t get mad! I have great news. I know EXACTLY how to change it, and when I say “it” I mean ALL of it!! The house, the job, the relationship, the car, the parents, the debts, the grades, whatever it is you are having a problem with right now!! And it’s SOOO EASY!!!!

I actually wrote a really short little pamphlet book called “What If All Your Dreams Came True?” that explains in bite sizes how to accomplish this, but I’ll give you a spoiler alert!

Start to feel good!! It really is that simple. If you start to be happy with what you have now, you will attract some seriously wonderful things!

Ok take this, last week my husband found out we were going to lose his second income, that’s $1700 a month drop for us, and I stay home with 3 kids under the age of 3.

We have one car, and we are loaning another, both check engine lights came on. We don’t have $20 extra dollars to fix them. And one of the 2 won’t even move from the driveway.

We rent but can’t afford the rent when we lose the $1700 but can’t find 1 decent listing in our pitiful price range.  

Depths of despair right? I’m telling you, I know EXACTLY how you feel!!

I did exactly what I’m telling you. I started to do things that made me feel good. I smiled at the world trying to destroy me, and I told the universe to bring it on, because I decided NOTHING and NO ONE can bring me down. I listened to pod-casts, youtube videos, and my own visualization videos I’ve created and within one week…….7 days……this is what happened.

Another job opportunity was dropped in my lap

Brother-in-law is a mechanic and offered to fix the cars for free

Found the house of our dreams with a bird’s eye view of the river we love so much! A house we had actually looked at and considered purchasing 3 years earlier!

This is one week people! Imagine what you can do in a month!

 I know for a fact what I am saying works, all you have to do is try it!

Please check out my book for a quick way to get started! It’sin kindle version, but you can download a kindle app on any device or computeror laptop! Enjoy and please let me know of your amazing transformations!! 

Be Freed From The Tortures of Negativity

I thought that today I would focus on a subject every person from every race, creed, and country struggles with everyday. The power of negativity. 

It has a great and powerful hold on most of us. Every person alive has negativity sneak into their lives at one point in the day. We live in the world, and here nothing is perfect. Which means that no matter how hard we try nothing is going to be exactly as we hope every second of every day. 

We live in a planet with other people and things that all make choices just like us. Sometimes others choices affect our lives. Sometimes in little annoying ways, and sometimes in very great ways. Whether its a co-worker who is always complaining or is mean or rude, or you got in a fender-bender on the way to work this morning, people are all around us and they have the ability to affect our lives in very profound ways........if we let them. 

We hold the power to guide the happenings in our lives where they go. But we have to choose to use this power and use it properly. 

There is a great difference between positive thinking, and wishful thinking. Some people chalk up positive people to be flighty, and non-realistic people because they come across and wishful thinkers. Or some people are just wishful thinkers and nothing positive happens in their lives. 

Other people (like me) are positive but can't let anything go. They can't stop thinking about the "how" everything is going to work out. They have to have a plan. But positivity doesn't work this way. 

When we have truly mastered the art of positivity we come to find that the "how" isn't our problem. How the positive vs. the negative is going to happen in our lives, or how the dreams, and goals, that you are searching for and visualizing for is actually going to come about. This isn't our job or our responsibility. But this is definitely my biggest struggle with the "Law of Attraction."  I am a planner an organizer, and a doer. I have to have a plan for every day, event, and outing. So when I visualize I have a hard time focusing what I want without thinking about “how” to get it!!

The key to staying positive is letting go. Realizing that we cannot control everything, and instead being thankful for the things we have and the things we can control. Like our attitude, and our outlook on life.

By throwing your arms up in the air and saying “I give it to you!” you release the trouble from your soul. Give it to the universe, to God, to your guardian angel it doesn't matter, just give it to a higher power, allowing yourself to be opened and cleared of the muddled mess of worry and negativity.

Just try it!!

Go and Be Freed! 

Be Happy

Are you the kind of person who wakes up in the morning with great intentions, who plans ahead and have a vision for your day? Each day you tell yourself today is going to be better than yesterday.

Or are you the kind of person you just goes with the flow? However you wake up and however your day goes, is just the way it is.

Or are you the kind of person who thinks that life just sucks? Nothing goes the way you hope or plan, so there is no reason for hoping or planning. Sure, at one point you had goals and dreams just like anybody. But you have been disappointed so many heart-breaking times you gave up. Life just sucks.

I think that no matter which category you fall into generally, we are guilty of all three at any given time.

Do you ever notice when you have a rocky morning, or something happens negatively it can ruin the whole day. This is for a reason. It is called the Law of attraction. By focusing on the negative things that happened in your day and feeling like “these things always happen to you,” or “why did this happen to me?” you bring about more of these feelings of negativity throughout your day.

But there are so many ways to stop these feelings, to change our daily outcome. And that is exactly how we change our lives. Just like we need to change our eating habits to change our figures. By just doing a couple things like listen to our favorite song, going for a breath of fresh air, or making a quick list of all the things that went great that day. 

Sure the alarm went off and you were exhausted and cranky but you aren't late for work! 

Sure you spilt coffee on your shirt and you had to change but you didn’t burn your tongue!

Sure there was traffic from a car accident up ahead, but at least you're not in the accident! 

So many things to be so extraordinarily thankful for. And by acknowledging these things we shift our feelings, which are the key and controls to our thoughts, and our thoughts are what bring about our reality.

You are special, there is no one like you! But by allowing your feelings to take the reins of your life, you jeopardize so much. You must put your educated thought into work to control your feelings. You're life is ONLY what you make it to be. That is it. Bottom line. You can argue it till the cows come home, but at the end of the day it is still true. We are all dealt a different hand, and we all have our sufferings, or problems, or in-capabilities. And yet you have the great power of still creating your life to be the great thing that it should be.

No don't get me wrong! I’m not telling you to live with your head in the clouds and being flighty and air heady always ignoring reality. By all means don't do that! I'm encouraging you to see the greatness of life, and to experience it for what it is worth. But just starting this great exercise you will be starting the transformation of self. You will begin to be able to attract to you so effortlessly and it won't matter what it is you want, by your positive and healthy feelings, emotions and thoughts you will be open and happy enough to receive the gifts of your hearts desires!

Go Be Happy!! 

Introduction

Hi!
My name is Scarlette. I've read a lot of blogs, and learned a lot of things from people who are passionate about what they believe! I finally have the guts to join these people I have learned so much from.

I'm not here to tell you about cooking, or cleaning, or organizing, or homemade soap making, or military living, or homeschooling, or pregnancy, or having 3 kids in 2 1/2 years (no multiples) all of which I am an expert in. I'm here to talk to you about a passion I have had since middle school. To teach you the greatest tool to living the greatest life you possibly can in the short time you have here on earth. I am here to teach you the tips, tricks, and secrets to what the experts call it "The Law of Attraction."

I have studied the law of attraction, its experts, and its effects almost everyday since I was 14. It truly is my passion. And although I know most of what there is to know about it I can't claim to be the most positive or successful person out there. I am still learning everyday the most effective way to live in this way.

With that being said I hope that blogging my knowledge to help you learn as much as you can about the law of attraction and positive healthy living will help me to mold myself more into being the law that is attracting!!

Thank you for coming with me on this extraordinary journey.