Be Happy

Are you the kind of person who wakes up in the morning with great intentions, who plans ahead and have a vision for your day? Each day you tell yourself today is going to be better than yesterday.

Or are you the kind of person you just goes with the flow? However you wake up and however your day goes, is just the way it is.

Or are you the kind of person who thinks that life just sucks? Nothing goes the way you hope or plan, so there is no reason for hoping or planning. Sure, at one point you had goals and dreams just like anybody. But you have been disappointed so many heart-breaking times you gave up. Life just sucks.

I think that no matter which category you fall into generally, we are guilty of all three at any given time.

Do you ever notice when you have a rocky morning, or something happens negatively it can ruin the whole day. This is for a reason. It is called the Law of attraction. By focusing on the negative things that happened in your day and feeling like “these things always happen to you,” or “why did this happen to me?” you bring about more of these feelings of negativity throughout your day.

But there are so many ways to stop these feelings, to change our daily outcome. And that is exactly how we change our lives. Just like we need to change our eating habits to change our figures. By just doing a couple things like listen to our favorite song, going for a breath of fresh air, or making a quick list of all the things that went great that day. 

Sure the alarm went off and you were exhausted and cranky but you aren't late for work! 

Sure you spilt coffee on your shirt and you had to change but you didn’t burn your tongue!

Sure there was traffic from a car accident up ahead, but at least you're not in the accident! 

So many things to be so extraordinarily thankful for. And by acknowledging these things we shift our feelings, which are the key and controls to our thoughts, and our thoughts are what bring about our reality.

You are special, there is no one like you! But by allowing your feelings to take the reins of your life, you jeopardize so much. You must put your educated thought into work to control your feelings. You're life is ONLY what you make it to be. That is it. Bottom line. You can argue it till the cows come home, but at the end of the day it is still true. We are all dealt a different hand, and we all have our sufferings, or problems, or in-capabilities. And yet you have the great power of still creating your life to be the great thing that it should be.

No don't get me wrong! I’m not telling you to live with your head in the clouds and being flighty and air heady always ignoring reality. By all means don't do that! I'm encouraging you to see the greatness of life, and to experience it for what it is worth. But just starting this great exercise you will be starting the transformation of self. You will begin to be able to attract to you so effortlessly and it won't matter what it is you want, by your positive and healthy feelings, emotions and thoughts you will be open and happy enough to receive the gifts of your hearts desires!

Go Be Happy!!